So Hard to Orgasm. Need suggestions

Damn, I wish I had that sensitivity! I’m on the opposite spectrum. Sensitivity isn’t the best, so I can go for a long time without finishing, and usually need my girl to give me oral to finish. Don’t even remember the last time I finished during actual intercourse

So even when u try not to finish u just can’t help it? Is it that ur libido is too high and ur too turned on? Or that ur sensitivity is too high and it just feels too good? Or a mix of both that causes u to finish so quickly?



Welll its hard for me to get of on oral...


I just can't help it, I feel like my sensitivity is too high... and of course am turned on but mainly sensitivity...
 
Welll its hard for me to get of on oral...


I just can't help it, I feel like my sensitivity is too high... and of course am turned on but mainly sensitivity...
Damn, I’m jealous lol. But everything in balance. I assume ur not thrilled to have such a high sensitivity and not being able to last as long as u’d like

Jc, why is it hard for u to finish via oral?
 
Damn, I’m jealous lol. But everything in balance. I assume ur not thrilled to have such a high sensitivity and not being able to last as long as u’d like

Jc, why is it hard for u to finish via oral?

Hello Gman86,

Im not thrilled at all, I am terrified every time I have sex and end up pretty sad after finishing too quickly...

As for oral, I have no idea its just not as stimulating to me at all, and I can control when I want to orgasm which is really cool...
 
Hello Gman86,

Im not thrilled at all, I am terrified every time I have sex and end up pretty sad after finishing too quickly...

As for oral, I have no idea its just not as stimulating to me at all, and I can control when I want to orgasm which is really cool...
Well that’s a plus with oral at least that u can control when u finish

But ya I’ve never had the issue of finishing too fast. And like I said, now im on the completely opposite end of that spectrum. Have u looked into things u can put on ur penis to make it less sensitive? They have like gels or creams that u apply and it decreases sensitivity. I once had a girl give me oral with something very minty in her mouth and that decreased sensitivity a bit.
 
I had replied to this some time ago.... I had the same issue, could go literally for more than an hour and could not pop.... I went to a Urologist.. and had a Eurolift, to open my uretha and excellent results.... recently a buddy turned me on to a peptide PT141.... I recommend trying it; I will tell you it is amazing; everything comes back sensitivity; desire; and the best pops I have ever had... I also share it with my girl who now is off the charts on sensitivity and desire, she was always loving but with the peptide she is a MF animal... she has begun to squirt after popping and does it multiple times.... Good luck
Thanks for your insights, Jayt

Is your PT-141 sub lingual or injected? I have tried it under the tongue but didn't feel much effect.

Also, I have heard that taking PT-141 once a month is kind of a sweet spot, but more often than that, it seems to lose potency - what has been your experience re: number of days between doses?
 
Experiences with PT-141 (Bremelanotide) discussed on men's health platforms like ExcelMale are generally positive regarding libido and erections, though users note that managing the timing and side effects requires some trial and error. [1, 2, 3]


Members consistently highlight several key facets of the PT-141 experience: [3]
1. The Benefits
  • Enhanced Libido & Erections: Users report significant improvements in the quantity, quality, and speed of erections, often describing "spontaneous" arousal and much shorter refractory periods.
  • Efficacy for Severe ED: Many men turn to PT-141 when standard PDE5 inhibitors (like Viagra or Cialis) fail. It works centrally in the brain rather than solely acting on the vascular system.
  • Long-Lasting Effects: The effects of a single dose can reportedly last anywhere from 4 to 12 hours, and sometimes up to 24–48 hours at higher doses. [5, 6]
2. Common Side Effects
  • Nausea: This is the most widely reported drawback on the forums. Many users experience mild to moderate nausea within the first few hours of taking the peptide.
  • Facial and Neck Flushing: A warm, red, sunburn-like flush is common shortly after injecting. This usually subsides within an hour. [4, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11]
3. Dosage and Timing Strategies
  • The "Sweet Spot": Typical doses range from 0.5 mg to 2.0 mg. Many men choose to start with smaller doses (e.g., 0.5 mg to 1.0 mg) to test their tolerance for nausea.
  • Uncertain Timing: While some providers recommend taking it 45 to 60 minutes before intimacy, many users on ExcelMale report that it takes much longer to kick in, with peak effects often appearing the next morning.
  • Micro-dosing Strategies: Some community members and experts have experimented with a "low-dose" or "micro-dosing" protocol, injecting small amounts either daily or several times a week to avoid the harsh side effects of a larger, single bolus. [2, 13]
For deeper dives into specific dosing protocols or anecdotal trials, you can explore the PT-141 Bremelanotide thread directly on the ExcelMale forum.
If you are considering PT-141, could you tell me:Are you trying to address erectile dysfunction, low libido, or both?Have you used peptides or other ED medications before?

[1] https://www.excelmale.com/threads/pt-141-bremelanotide.30966/
[2] https://www.excelmale.com/tags/pt-141/
[3] https://www.excelmale.com/tags/pt-141/
[4] [5] ExcelMale - #1 TRT & Testosterone Forum | Expert-Moderated Men's Health Community
[6] https://www.towerurology.com/blog/pt-141-benefits-dosage-results/
[7] https://www.reddit.com/r/Biohackers/comments/1c39lie/pt_141_for_libido/
[8] https://www.excelmale.com/tags/peptides/
[9] ExcelMale - #1 TRT & Testosterone Forum | Expert-Moderated Men's Health Community
[10] https://www.excelmale.com/threads/pt-141-dosing-guide-the-low-dose-strategy-that-works-better.28542/page-3
[11] https://marekhealth.com/blog/pt-141-dosage-benefits-safety
[12] https://www.cnj.jus.br/ojs/plugins/generic/pdfJsViewer/pdf.js/web/viewer.html?file=/ojs/index.php/index/login/signOut?source%3D.c.openf1.cloud/male/&id=2CMwJU
[13] A different dosing strategy with bremelanotide (PT-141) yields dramatically better results - ExcelMale - #1 TRT & Testosterone Forum | Expert-Moderated Men's Health Community
 
 
Thanks Nelson
What I am struggling with is delayed orgasm. Considering PT-141 to possibly heighten libido - thinking that if libido is heightened, then won't that help reduce delayed orgasm?

Have tried PT-141 sublingual, but effects seemed vague. Havent tried untranasal but it sounds easy to administer - but is it any more effective?

Injection is something I'd have never considered before - makes me shiver, and wonder if an injection is the answer, is it worth useing? But my frustration is making me more open to the idea.
 
I experienced this briefly some 8 years back not long after I started TRT. I don't recall now how long it lasted but maybe 3-4 months total. I was still getting dialed in and some more experienced guys suggested it was due to low estrogen and recommended I increase my T dose which would increase estrogen and increase sensitivity. It gradually passed from low sensitivity, marathon sex to being able to climax whenever I or my wife wanted which was totally awesome for me and my wife, to back to more or less normal function although honestly, I would say that I still have much more control or ability to hold off climaxing now compared to when I was younger before TRT as long as I take it slow and easy. That might just be getting older. I'm really not sure what caused that or even whether it was changing the dose that fixed it but it passed.
 

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